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“I gotta go down on you right now.” Of course, this is not you saying what you’re going to do regardless of your partner’s consent; it’s like using your blinker—it’s an indicator of what you plan to do next. It provides a (sexy) window for your partner to say, “Wait, play with my boobs first before you do that,” or whatever else they might want. This should be obvious, but if Jason Derulo’s lyrics are any indication, it is not. Part of not sounding ridiculous is using sexy terms for body parts. Tits and boobs are both acceptable, but don’t you dare use the c-word (unless your partner has asked you explicitly to do so).

In the moment

If you’re still looking for inspiration or just want to make your dirty talk even dirtier (I don’t blame ya!), there are plenty of erotic texts, apps, and other resources out there to help get your ideas flowing. To try this, simply negotiate a scenario with your partner with the agreement that it’s fantasy only. For example, during sex, your partner could talk about the friend they’ve invited over to join in, who will be there any minute.

  • One way to build confidence with sex talk is to start dirty talking to yourself.
  • “Instead of saying ‘I didn’t like it when you bit my nipple,’ frame it as something like ‘I loved it when you got on top last week,’” she explains.
  • “It’s totally okay to have a backlog of phrases in your back pocket,” she said.
  • Dirty talk, when done right, can enhance intimacy and pleasure in the bedroom.

Erotic Questions in a Game

Your voice is your mature turn-on factor in the dirty talk world. There is a difference if you just say your fantasies in a normal tone out loud, or if you slow down, with presence, and use a mystical calmness with a confident intentional emphasis. You may use your moans, groans, sighs, whispering, or in some cases, even screaming. The sound can be commanding, harsh, sweet, submissive, uncertain and everything in between.Most importantly, try to be authentic.

You could use this during foreplay, or while having sex with each other. If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it. Don’t try to say a bunch of these things if they sound foreign and awkward coming out of your mouth. The personas you create need not be a reflection of who you really are or even what you normally like.

  • ” Manta says she hears anxious concerns like these all the time in the field.
  • Dirty talk is a liberating experience for women to break down this mindset and become comfortable in their sexuality and desires.
  • Here are some tips on how to make sex last longer if pacing, in general, tends to be something you struggle with.

Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. Fortunately, your lover is clearly turned on by your genuine expression of pleasure rather than something forced or faked. And he may even enjoy the fact that you are verbally a little shy.

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Although men and women tend to differ slightly in erotic talk preferences, overall, there are some similarities in the data for both. Both men and women reported high levels of enjoyment for mutualistic talk (higher than individualistic talk). These eight message themes fit into two higher order factors. These factors are individualist talk and mutualistic talk. Individual talk is a higher order of erotic talk themes that correlate more so to individual satisfaction, while mutualistic talk correlates more so to mutual satisfaction, namely a sexual partner’s satisfaction.

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